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"And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word o f their testimony..." Revelation 12:11

 

* PAIN IS A DRAWING MECHANISM TO REMEMBRANCE *

In our quest for fame and fortune we tend to step on and over so many people that we see as unimportant, not realizing that they are casualties of previous battles. Battles many of us have never witnessed or encountered. There is a vast amount of wounded soldiers in need of love, joy and peace. They are angry at past failures, angry and often ashamed because of their past and have hardened their heart and not allowed the Lord to heal those wounded areas. Many hide behind a big smile, the pain has been hidden in the shadow of that individual for a season.

My prayer to you is to "Come Clean" with yourself and your feelings. "Pain is a Drawing Mechanism To Remembrance" where there's no pain there is less memory. If you've never received healing from abuse (be it physical, verbal or sexual) or broken relationships, everyone around you will be affected because of the hidden pain within. All the frustrations of your past you will bring to new relationships, simply because you just couldn't deal. By this I mean it's hard to trust again when a confidence has been shattered, it's hard to love again when the very one you love has hurt you. You're like being around an explosive time bomb waiting to explode.

"Pain Is A Drawing Mechanism To Remembrance" however, when healing comes the remembrance fades gradually away and leaves no lasting scar. Jesus has promised us healing of our broken hearts and our physical bodies, but we must know that the Word of God works. No matter what we may go through we must learn to work the Word and allow the Word of God to become flesh and dwell among us. Nevertheless, in order for your healing to come, you must identify and stop covering up your particular "root problems". They have added layers and layers of wrong decisions, bitterness, un-forgiveness, hatefulness, envy, strife and have opened the door to demonic oppression or possession.

The main hindrance to "Healing" is "Un-forgiveness", the majority of wounded souls have not yet forgiven others and they have either entered into another relationship, bringing additional trauma to the new relationship and still remaining angry from past root problems and no one can please them. This all stems from not dealing with the "Soul Man" our Mind, Will & Emotions. The bible speaks of confessing our sins and the faithfulness of God to forgive and cleanse us of all unrighteousness (I John 1:9). The bible also says; "If we hide iniquity (sin) in our hearts God will not hear our prayers". (Ps. 66:18)

We must trust God enough to know that His Word doesn't return unto Him void, but it accomplishes every thing (unlimited measures) it's sent out to do. Be Healed in the Name of Jesus. "Come Clean" forgive your perpetrator, forgive your enemies, forgive those that have persecuted you, forgive your father, forgive your mother, forgive your sister and brother and now forgive yourself, for blaming yourself. "God has already forgiven you". Why won't you now forgive "Yourself."

Copyright ã 1994 by Carolyn B. Hayes

 

DO ANY OF THESE APPLY TO YOU?

Privacy Invaded

Victims

Alone

Confused

Withdrawal

Fear

Insecurities

Why Me?

Rejection

Frigid

Bitterness

Lack of Communication

Stress

Hatred

Low Self Esteem

Grudges

Guilt

Anger

Quick to Speak

Bondage

Self Pity

Un-confessed Sin

Drugs

Condemned

Depression

Restlessness

Un-believed

Un-forgiveness

Lack of Trust

Pain

 

 

Sickness

 

 

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